So I recently have been receiving treatment from the guys that I know that I do not like. Call me old fashioned, but I feel as though boys are supposed to have a certain amount of propriety in order to be considered gentlemen. Which a lot of them aren't, according to me.
And I might be a terribly critical judge, but there are many things that make a boy immediately lose gentleman points. Recently, I have had friends do various things to me that make me step back and look at the types of people they are, honestly.
My friend kicked me in the butt the other day. Actually, now that I think about it, my butt has been a main attraction on several occasions. And THAT is not ok. I don't know how I have portrayed that it is. Because it's NOT. If anyone ever does that to me, they WILL not date me. They are officially off my list indefinitely. Why is that ok? Honestly? Who does that? It's legitimately the creepiest, grossest thing in the universe. How have I let people know that's ok? I probably have been a little too lax in letting people know it's ok, because I don't like it. I mean, should I throw a fit every time it happens? What would people think? They'd not touch my butt. But should I care what people think? I dont know. I do know that if I ever told my father of this, there would definitely be a problem for those boys. I guess I need to be a little more assertive. Ha. A joke. I laugh.
Anyway.
The boys I have talked to recently have gotten on my nerves because they think it's ok to talk about everything under the sun regarding girls. Every.thing. Which is gross. I had talking about that stuff anyway, under any circumstance except, you know, in my dorm or with my best friend or whatever. Any other time it's just not appropriate. And I don't know why people don't see or understand that. I HATE talking about it. I know that no one reads this, but I don't even want to write about it here. Because that is how much I hate talking about it excluding a few situations. People always ask "What about when you get married? You're not going to talk about it??" And I think that is a legitimately stupid question. My husband will figure it out. I'm sure we will talk about it. But just for conversation? Hell naww.
Someone asked about my thong.
Someone asked about Mr. Asian.
Someone kicked me in the butt.
I've been called a bitch and a ho (jokingly) more times than I can count.
Is this ok? I don't know why it would. But it seems as though I treat it like it's a big deal, people freak out and think I'm ridiculous. I am NOT ridiculous. I don't want to be treated like some common girl. I'm not. Some people want to be treated like that, that's fine, great for them. Well, not really, that sucks. But still. Honestly? Who told YOU it was ok to disprespect me? Y'all are supposed to be southerners. i.e. respectful. And maybe I was playing into the sterotype. Or maybe what I initially thought was wrong. Or maybe all southerners are posers.
Who knows.
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